These days, the office life has become so materialistic and full of ego that we have forgotten to wish everyone the basic “Good Morning” at the start of the day, a gesture which was taken for granted some years back (but not now!)

The demon of “ego” has climbed on to the heads to such an extent that now people think “why should I be the first to wish others good morning?”

Okay, let us come to another category… Some people have this habit of looking at their cell phones or pretending to type an SMS, just because they don’t want to interact with the person passing by. If that is not all for you, they go a step ahead and look into the eyes of the person, only to put their eye lids down, the moment they have an eye contact with the other person. I mean, Okay, you are busy and have your share of work, but what’s wrong in wishing someone “Good Morning” and then move on with your work? Is it too difficult to utter these two words and carry on with your work? And let me tell you, it is just not about wishing mornings, some people are on such rude terms with each other in office premises that they don’t even look at each other for week and weeks, forget about talking! (It may not affect you, but trust me; it is affecting your performance in the office)

Then you have those people, who intentionally implement this rude behavior in office, just because they want to show that they are too busy and occupied and hence, irritated, thanks to the piles and piles of work which have been allotted to them (when in reality, they are doing nothing at their bay). Hypocrisy is at their bay!

Some people believe that they are so talented and bossy, that they don’t need to bother about good manners. They find it their sole right to suppress people working under them, only to show what kind of authority they have. In reality, these people are losers and nothing else! Trust me; rudeness is not at all an attractive facet to follow

Talking something about good etiquettes, there is nothing wrong in asking someone politely for something and wishing people “good mornings.” “Would you please do it?” This should be an apt sentence to use at work rather than saying “I want this work to be done as soon possible.” Authority would leave you no where, but disrespect from others!

Constant rudeness would only make you an odd figure in the group, hence making you an object of mock amongst your peers, if not others! Just relax, and live the charm of being polite”! World will respect you for that!

Life is getting tedious by each passing moment. Monotonous hours simply refuse to pass by. No excitement, nothing! If that is the case with you, try working on the below mentioned simple ways and get HAAAaaPY moments in your life:

Never Expect: The moment you start expecting things from others, you make yourself fall into the pit created by you only. Just be yourself, do whatever you feel like, without thinking much as to what others have to say about you and STOP EXPECTING! I would give you one very interesting example from my life. It’s a very small instance, but may depict this point of mine brilliantly. Whenever I expect the other person to call/message/ contact or you can say MISS ME, he or she never does that. The wait lasts for seconds, hours and sometimes one full day, and with that my expectations rise too! 8…9…10… the level reaches the boiling point! But the moment I divert my attention from this aspect that the same person would call me (I mean the moment I leave my expectations); I get a call all of a sudden! This is just a small example and I know life is much beyond a CALL, but some things can be better explained through examples like these only!

Never Keep Any Grudges in Your Heart: Just remember that “words once said cannot be taken aback”!  People speak bad things when they have something bad about other person in their heart. It takes ages to build relationship but one moment to ruin it forever. And then what is the end result? You end up sulking throughout your life as to why you kept so much hatred in your heart for that person, when in reality; there was nothing to hate him.

No Worries: Who has gained anything after worrying? No one! Worrying about aspects is such a waste of time. You will only get what is destined for you. So stop worrying and do your KARMA. Leave the rest to god. He has done good for you till now and will do well in future also. Remember if he has dropped something from your hand, it is only because he wants you to pick up something better in future! Wait for that.

Live a Simple Life: Simple Living High Thinking, that’s the mantra of life! Of course there is nothing wrong in flaunting but don’t let that “flaunt” run over your head! And flaunt only if you are capable of doing so. Never ruin yourself for the sake of others.

Give More: It is God who has given you everything in life. So why show arrogance for the materialistic things that were NEVER yours! Everything is given by god! Spread happiness and give people their share of love. Life will love you back!

Already feeling refreshed! Follow these ways in your life and make it worth living.

There are times when you would want to be aloof, go away from the materialistic world and hide into a serene ambiance all alone! Also, there are times when you want to be independent and explore the world of your own. This blog of mine comprises of some of the hottest and spiciest destinations to travel alone (you can say ‘independently!’)

Belize: A Lilliputian English-speaking American country having a freezy ambiance and some of the best resorts to indulge into! With the increase in its popularity, a lot of celebrities like Leonardo DiCaprio, Francis Ford Coppola, including others have already booked their places in the serene environment of Belize.

Pittsburgh: Again it is my choice, so I don’t blame anyone for not choosing the same. The best part about the place is the nighttime view from the amazing Mount Washington. No matter whether you are alone or with some one special, the view always makes the place unique in itself!

The next on the list would be Queenstown, New Zealand. It is a paradise for all those snowboarders and skiers out there, plus serves as a brilliant travel destination to relax and calm down your nerves. The public transportation is amazing and not to forget the possibility of exploring the entire place, courtesy the rented vehicles that are easily available in Queenstown.

Next I would like to put my money on Sicily. The island is decked with some of the beautiful and most enchanting scenic views one can only think of. The seafood is out of this world, including the prices that are noticeably cheaper as compared to other Italian cities. An independent traveler would surely love every aspect of Sicily, be it beach, fishing, swimming, seafood, Italian culture and so on. Just consult a Travel Visa expert and head on towards a calm, exciting and independent journey.